1. Homeschooling is life changing. It
creates personal growth for both the parent and the child. You get a chance
to re-discover your own special genius, while helping your children to find
theirs. Nothing you will ever do will have a more profound effect on your
children and your family's future than homeschooling.
2. You are qualified to homeschool
your children if you love to read to them, love to spend time with them,
love to explore the world with them, love to see them learn new things and,
most importantly, love them. Again, don't doubt your ability!
3. Children love to learn. They have
an innate desire to explore the world and examine what they find
interesting. Children learn by following their interests, with one interest
leading to another. Homeschooling families learn together, making learning a
life-long process.
4. Homeschooling is legal everywhere
in the United States, but homeschooling laws vary from state to state. The
three basic categories for homeschooling laws are: home education laws,
private school laws, and equivalency laws. The best way to learn about your
state's laws is to contact a local support group in your area. To locate a
representative from your state, please visit our list of local homeschooling
groups by visiting
www.Homeschool.com. Homeschool group
leaders are well versed in your state's particular laws and regulations and
can be a great resource for you.
5. It does not take six to eight hours
per day to homeschool your child. A significant amount of time at school is
spent waiting. Design a plan that works for your family and be prepared to
revise it several times or even start over. Don't sacrifice your family's
happiness to "school" your children. There are many different ways that
families can homeschool - find what works for you and your family. Think
outside of the box, and where necessary, consult with homeschooling/learning
specialists.
6. Your child will not become a social
misfit. Children do not need to be socialized in a large group of same-age
children to become well adjusted socially; it is quite the opposite. Most
parents want their children to learn their social graces from adults, not
other children. Homeschoolers have healthy relationships with people of all
ages, including the new mother next door, the retired couple who loves to
garden, their friends at ballet, 4-H and Karate and, most importantly, their
parents.
7. Don't be afraid to teach Algebra or
high-level math courses! When your child is ready for these courses, there are
numerous options to assist you if your knowledge is not up-to-speed. Explore
the many resources available to help your child learn high-level math skills:
in a community
college class, with a tutor, through a textbook, or with a program such as
ALEKS.
ALEKS is a research-based online math program that provides highly-targeted,
individualized assessment and learning for grades 3-12. With a
robust course library, ALEKS offers
the instruction and support that you need to homeschool your children in
mathematics. ALEKS is accessible from virtually any computer with Internet
access, making it a comprehensive and mobile education solution for your
children.
8. You will question yourself a lot,
maybe even several times a day in the beginning. This is normal. Find a
fellow homeschooling friend for support. Remind each other that it's okay to
feel that your children didn't seem to learn anything on a given day. They
did, and so did you! Even professional teachers question themselves
sometimes!
9. Thousands of homeschooling families
are able to make the money they need, while also homeschooling their
children. Whether you create a family business or dream job, or restructure
your current job, your children will learn the most important skill of all -
how to create the life of their dreams.
10. Trust in your children. They
learned how to love, smile, crawl, walk, talk, run, dress themselves, and
understand their world before starting school, and they will continue to
grow and learn through homeschooling.