Is Your Child At or Above Grade Level?
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Welcome everyone and thank you for calling. The title of this teleseminar is "Homeschool Planning & Organization for the Totally Overwhelmed and Utterly Confused." My name is Rebecca Kochenderfer and I will be your host for this call. I am the Senior Editor for Homeschool.com and co-author of a book called "Homeschooling For Success." I have been homeschooling for 16 years now and sometimes I still feel "totally overwhelmed and utterly confused."
Let's face it, sometimes homeschooling seems so easy and natural and at other times it feels like a big job. During this call today we're going to be talking about:
Before we start, I want to take a minute and dedicate this teleseminar to our wonderful Homeschool.com Product Testers. For the past couple of months they have been answering surveys and sending in their advice and suggestions. They have been so giving and this is a wonderful example of homeschoolers helping homeschoolers.
In one of the surveys, I asked them "What are the top changes you would make to your homeschooling? I think you'll find their answers helpful.
So today I'm going to see if I can give you some ideas and suggestions that will help you relax more in your homeschooling and have more fun, but still feel like you are accomplishing something.
In July, I will be having a private 5-week teleclass that will cover all of these areas in more detail. During those 5 weeks I will personally hold your hand so that by August 14th your home will be organized and you will have a customized plan in place that will get you off to a good start and will see you through the rest of the school year. Unfortunately, I will only be able to take 50 signups for this class, so if you think you might be interested you might want to sign up while this call is going on. The registration page for the class is at http://www.homeschool.com/coaching/. If you wait until the end of the call, it may already be full.
Grade Level Expectations
On page 1 of the cheat sheet I have some links for you about grade level expectations. After the call, you can click on these links to explore some good information on this topic. But I really want to comfort you about this. There really are no specific expectations for each grade. At least no one agrees on these expectations. Schools all have different expectations for what they think should be accomplished at each grade level. For example, Waldorf schools like to give their students time to mature and do not teach reading until the second grade. However, there are some private schools that expect preschoolers to already be reading. And classical homeschoolers do things differently than Charlotte Mason homeschoolers. If you want, you can do a Google search where you put in the name of your state and then the words "grade level expectations." This will bring up links over to sites that will list the expectations in your state for math, science, and reading. These expectations might help you if you are required to take standardized tests each year that compare your student with other students in the state.
There are also a couple of books I recommend that might be a good resource for you. My family really likes the "What Every 1st Grader Should Know" series by E.D. Hirsh. This series has books for grades K through 6 and we have worn our copies to tatters. You may also get a lot out of the book called "The Well-Trained Mind" by Susan Wise Bauer. Her method of classical homeschooling is very popular with homeschoolers. And Rebecca Rupp has a good book called "Home Learning Year by Year."
But really, grade level expectations are pretty random. In California, for example, the expectation is that 10th grade is when I should teach my child about Mother's Day. And to be honest, isn't our goal to do better than the public schools? Not just meet their standards? So I want to encourage you to not worry about standardized grade level expectations and instead to set goals for your children each year that will give them an excellent education and will also help them identify and develop their special passions and talents.
So here are your action steps for this topic:
How to homeschool different age children at the same time
The next topic we're going to discuss is how to homeschool different age children at the same time. For the classroom teacher, their challenge is teaching 20-40 children at the same time. For the homeschooler, our challenge is teaching different grade levels at the same time. Our Product Testers have some great suggestions for you. As you listen to these suggestions, write down any good ideas or inspirations you come up with.
Before we go on to the next topic, I want to give you some action steps to take. If you have young ones, put together a special homeschooling box or basket just for your toddler. You may also want to have some educational videos and educational software programs on hand that you can use to keep one child busy while you work with another. And if you think you might be interested in unit studies, why not give it a try this summer. Pick a topic, like sign language or dinosaurs or the history and geography and sites in your area and do a unit study on this. Your kids won't even know they are doing school.
How to organize your time and get everything done without going dingy.
When I survey homeschoolers and ask them what their #1 challenge is they almost always say "time." This is why people think we are insane when we say we are going to homeschool our children instead of sending them to school 6 hours a day. They think we are nuts to add on another big job when life is already busy enough. How DO we get it all done and still keep a smile on our face? How do you work, run the house, make healthy meals, take time for yourself, AND homeschool your kids? This must be why when you ask homeschoolers what change they would make in their homeschooling, they say they wish they were more organized.
Everyone has their own comfort level when it comes to organization. I have been accused of having a "high tolerance for chaos." And it's true! I can have 15 kids over, making mud pies, and I enjoy it. My husband, on the other hand, hates it when there is a dirty dish in the sink. Be true to yourself and develop an organization plan that works for you. That's the only way you'll be able to stick with it. It has to be natural and easy for YOU. So here are some suggestions to get you started. If another, better idea occurs to you, be sure to write it down right away so that you don't forget it. Here goes...
About the 5-week coaching class
I will cover time management and organization in more detail during my private 5-Week Coaching Teleclass. During the 5-week teleclass, I'm going to hold your hand to help you create the best homeschooling plan you have ever had. The cost for this coaching program is $195 for the five weeks. So that equals out to $40 per LIVE teleclass, plus all the live email support just for you during those 5 weeks, plus all the bonuses we'll be sending you. If you can't make the LIVE teleclass you can pre-order the online version for $95 and we'll send you the recordings and class materials in September, as soon as they are available. The signup page for both of these options is www.Homeschool.com/coaching. If you scroll down that page you'll see a link that says "Yes! I want to purchase the live coaching program" or "Help! I can't make the live event and want to preorder the recordings."
Here's how it works:
I love the way one homeschooling mom put it. "I may not always be motivated, but I am always committed." Just like school, homeschooling seems to have times when a lot is getting done and when practically nothing is getting done. Remember when you were in school? Pretty much nothing but art was done in December during the holidays and during the last couple of weeks of the year nothing much got accomplished because everyone was tired and burned out. The beauty of homeschooling is its flexibility. You get to create a daily schedule that works for you and you get to create a yearly schedule that works for you.
Try to break up the school year into sections. Do you tend to get a lot done between September and November? Then set some challenging goals for that time period and decide ahead of time that if you reach your goals you will take December off. And if you know that you tend to get tired and distracted by May, then plan ahead to get a lot of studying in between January and April. When my children were younger we homeschooled year round. It was such a natural part of our day that no one wanted to stop. And because I knew we were going year round, I felt comfortable having days where no "official" homeschooling seemed to be taking place. Now that my children are older they seem to need that big break in the summer. They take a lot of group classes and they are tired and burned out by the end of May. What type of yearly schedule will work best for you? Think about that this summer and get out your calendar and think about what type of schedule will work best for you this coming school year. Give yourself plenty of breaks throughout the year to rest and recharge. And be sure to celebrate whenever you reach your goals.
The comfort of knowing what the yearly schedule will look like it that it eliminates the feeling of "Will this ever end?" By dividing your year up into sections and setting goals for each time period, you get the satisfaction of checking things off your list and feeling like you have really accomplished something. And the kids get to celebrate and feel good about what they are doing.
Once you have a picture of what your yearly schedule will look like, you may want to decide ahead of time what your weekly schedule will look like. Will you have a theme for each day? Will every Friday be outdoor day or fieldtrip day or art day? What type of weekly schedule will give the kids variety and break things up a bit? You want to keep things from becoming too much the same day after day. That's boring for everyone.
The keys to staying motivated are:
I asked you earlier to picture what your daily rhythm would look and feel like. Most likely you will want to keep this rhythm for a couple of months (for the fall semester, for example) and then switch over to a different rhythm for the winter months where you may decide you want to sleep in until the house warms up, or so you can read aloud for hours together at night in front of the fire. After that, you may want to have a different rhythm planned for when the weather gets good and you want to spend lots of time outdoors. By anticipating the holidays and the weather changes you can decide ahead of time how much and what type of homeschooling you are planning to do during each time period. That way you've planned ahead that you are going to spend lots of time on Christmas projects during December, lots of time for snow sports in January, and lots of time outdoors in the spring.
Your homework after this call is to plan out ahead of time:
And my last bit of advice having to do with motivation is the most important. Remember to pace yourself, take plenty of breaks, and take good care of yourself. No one is at their best when they are tired or stressed out. Make sure you celebrate and pat yourself on the back for the wonderful job you are doing. And be sure to pat your children on the back too and celebrate all the neat things they are learning, the great things they are accomplishing, and the wonderful person they are becoming.
How to save time & money, but still give your child a complete education
Let's talk a minute about the costs and time involved to homeschool. As I said, you don't have to break the bank and homeschool 8-10 hours a day in order to do a great job. Remember, homeschooling can cost a lot or a little. You choose. And the dollar amount does not determine the quality of the homeschooling. So that's a comfort. If you don't have a lot of money, you can still do a great job homeschooling.
Now let's talk about the time involved. Homeschooling (which is basically one on one and small group learning) is a lot faster than classroom learning because you don't have classroom management and behavioral issues to deal with. But homeschooling does take time and most homeschoolers wish they had more time to devote to their homeschooling.
Once you've done your homework and have decided what your yearly and daily rhythm is going to be like, this will help you a lot with your time management. Because now you know your priorities and you will be less likely to let interruptions derail you from your homeschooling.
Let's talk a bit about goal setting. I love setting goals and I've found this to be a huge help in my life. When I was younger I had a tendency to start something and then quit it and move on to something new. This was awfully bad for my confidence and I never seemed to accomplish anything. So now I set specific goals for myself and I always make sure I celebrate when I accomplish them.
And I've encouraged my children to set fall, spring and summer goals for themselves. I ask them what their goals are and I write these down on a piece of paper. Then I tape their goals to the refrigerator so they are a daily reminder and we celebrate every time they accomplish one of their goals. When my son was 9 he said his goal was to learn to drive every kind of boat. I thought to myself, "Good grief, how is he going to accomplish this one?" So I asked around and discovered that there was a summer boating camp in our area that taught canoeing, kayaking, sailing, windsurfing, and motor boating. Can you believe it?!
I give them a lot of guidance when they are writing their goals for the semester. I'll add things to the list like:
Then I take these goals VERY seriously and they know that I will do everything in my power to help them accomplish these goals. And when they do, I take a photo of them holding the 5 books they have read, and I print out their 'killer' report, and I take a photo of them with their knitting project, and I put all this together into a simple stapled portfolio. I have these portfolios going back years and the kids still love to look at them. And when people ask them, "what do you do in homeschooling?" They know the answer and have specific examples of what they have learned. It's such a confidence builder!
So now your homework for after this call is to help your child set some goals. Are there a certain number of books you want them to read this summer? Do they want to take an online babysitting class? Or is their goal to sleep in, write in their journal, and swim a lot this summer. These are important goals too.
My 16 year old son's goals for this past spring semester were to:
When he took the AP exam we went out and celebrated. I told him that we were going to celebrate twice. Once for when he had the courage to stretch himself and sit for the exam, and once if he passes the test.
Next year his goals are to finish and publish a book, start a role-playing website, and ace the PSAT and SAT exams. Because these are such big goals, we know ahead of time to take it easier with his other subjects. No matter what happens next year and no matter what comes up, these three goals are top priority and they help us to keep focused and motivated all year long.
And let's talk a minute about ways to save money on your homeschooling. The advice from our product testers is to:
By the way, when I asked out Product Testers to tell me which websites they liked the best, about 40% of them wrote in the name Enchanted Learning. If you have younger children, go to www.enchantedlearning.com. You're going to love this site. And Homeschool.com has a list of the Top 100 Educational Websites. Just go to www.Homeschool.com and scroll down towards the bottom of the page. You'll find it listed there and it's a great resource.
How to prepare for high school and college
Lastly, I want to talk about high school and college planning. This is an intimidating topic for most of us. We want to homeschool all the way through high school, but the idea of homeschooling the harder subjects and making sure that our child can graduate and get into a good college if they want to, can be a bit scary. Homeschooling high school is a different game.
I'm knee deep into this right now myself with my 16 year old so I'm learning as I go. When I asked our Product Testers for advice they had some great suggestions.
The #1 suggestion is to have your teen take classes at your local junior college. Dual enrollment is great! If your homeschooled teen takes a class at the junior college, they receive high school and college credit for that same class. Plus, they get to have that college experience and the classes are relatively inexpensive. And colleges like to have outside verification of your child's learning so they are comforted to see that your student can do well in the classroom too.
In the cheat sheet, I've included some other great suggestions for you too. So be sure to read through this list.
If you think your child will want to go to college then start talking now about which colleges they might enjoy. This will determine what subjects you study and which tests you take.
Your action step for this topic is to do a Google search with the name of your state and the words graduation requirements. Print this out. Then find out what your 1st choice college is looking for and add these requirements to that diploma list. Then know that the PSAT is given in the fall of the Junior year and then plan on taking the SAT two or three times – in the spring of the junior year, in the fall of the senior year, and in the spring of the senior year. College applications and financial aid applications are done the summer after the junior year, so plan on spending a lot of time that summer on paper work. You can take campus tours at any time, but most people do them their Junior year.
My son would like to go to Stanford (and BOY would I LOVE for him to get in). And fortunately, Stanford loves homeschoolers (26% of their new enrollees were homeschooled). We did our research and discovered that they like students who do neat, challenging projects. And since my son wants to write a book and start a web business, we are hoping that he can have these things done before the end of his Junior year so that he can put this on his college application.
I'll have more specific information for you on homeschooling high school this September when my new book is done. So I'll be sure to let you know when that is ready.
It looks like we are out of time now so I want to thank you very much for participating in this call today. I enjoyed it very much and I hope you got a lot out of it.
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