3 Reasons to Homeschool During Each Stage of ChildhoodJune 28, 2023
This is a guest blog post from Sonlight.
Regardless of your children’s ages, you probably have overarching reasons to homeschool: teaching your faith to your kids, freedom to travel, meeting special learning needs, etc. But today I’d love to offer some specific reasons to homeschool at the various stages along the way. Whether your oldest is three or sixteen, here’s a little encouragement to keep at it if you are already homeschooling or to take the plunge if you aren’t homeschooling yet.
3 Reasons to Homeschool During the Preschool Years
- Give Your Children What They Need in Preschool: Preschoolers don’t need worksheets and flashcards in order to be ready for academic success. In fact, too much seat work at this age can squash children’s innate love of learning or even convince them that they are unintelligent. The two most important things preschoolers really need for later academic success are time for free play and loving parents who read and talk with them. You can definitely provide those things at home! While traditional preschools continue to push academics earlier and earlier, you can give your little ones freedom to discover that learning is exciting.
- Enjoy a Gentle Entry Point to Homeschooling: Are you curious about homeschooling but intimidated by the thought? Preschool is the perfect place to start. If you can read, talk, and play with your child, you can homeschool preschool. So what do you have to lose? Test the waters and see how it goes for your family. I have a feeling you’ll love it.
- Family Bonding: These are such precious years with your little ones. As you homeschool the Sonlight way, you will develop rhythms of reading, cuddling, talking, and creating that lay the foundation for a deepening relationship for years to come.
3 Reasons to Homeschool During the Early Elementary Years
- Let Your Kids Develop on Their Natural Timeline: Research confirms that it is unhelpful to push children to read before they are ready. (What it does instead is bring lots of tears, frustration, and labeling!) Most kids who learn to read at age seven easily catch up to those who have been reading since age three. So, protect your children’s love of learning and let them develop on their own timeline–something which can be all but impossible in a traditional school.
- Watch the Light Bulb Turn On for Reading: When your child is ready to read, you get to experience one of the highlights of homeschooling. There is nothing else like the joy of introducing your children to the amazing world of literacy. You get to open doors for them that will facilitate wonder and discovery for the rest of their lives. I still get goosebumps when I think of how precious it was to sit on the couch with my kids and watch each of them gradually take off with reading.
- Let Your Little Kids Act Like Little Kids: Little children don’t need to learn to sit still for hours on end with only a short recess squeezed in. God created them with bundles of energy, curiosity, and joy. You can give your kids outlets for all that at home. Does your son want to practice his math facts while he jumps on the trampoline in his Superman costume? Great! Be thankful he can get his energy out in acceptable ways instead of being disciplined in school for not sitting still.
3 Reasons to Homeschool During the Late Elementary Years
- If Things Are Going Well, Why Stop?: If homeschooling during preschool and the early grades has worked for you, why send your kids to school now? If you just need to tweak some things, give our homeschool advisors a call at no charge–they’ll help you brainstorm solutions.
- Give Your Children the Time for Free Play and Physical Activity That They Need: Children absolutely need physical movement and free play in order to learn and develop according to their capacity. Schools know this but feel like their hands are tied … and so by late elementary (and often earlier), recesses have been drastically shortened. Kids spend most of every day sitting quietly in chairs. Homeschooling gives your children the freedom to learn how God intended them to learn at this stage.
- Enjoy Some of my Favorite Sonlight Programs!: I adore every single Sonlight program. But Cores E and F hold a special place in my heart. Many of my all-time favorite books show up in American History Year 2 of 2 (Core E). And Eastern Hemisphere (Core F) is truly special; many Sonlighters say it is their favorite. As far as I know, it is the only homeschool program of its kind.
3 Reasons to Homeschool During the Middle School Years
- Give Your Children Freedom From the Immense Social Pressure at Middle Schools: Middle school can be the hardest time socially for many children. In these years more than any other, there is incredible social pressure for children to walk in lockstep with each other. The social emphasis is on conformity, conformity, conformity. Homeschooling can spare your children from pressures that they aren’t yet mature enough to handle.
- Protect Your Children’s Sense of Self: Does your son wear funky clothes? Does your daughter love astronomy and math? Homeschooling in middle school can go a long way toward allowing your kids to continue to develop as their own people with their own interests.
- Give Them Tools to Deal with Social Pressures: Some studies show that girls’ self-esteem often plummets in middle school. I don’t have data to back this up, but it seems like many homeschooled girls are spared this trauma. Free to be themselves without the fear of ridicule, they can continue to focus on learning as they also develop the emotional maturity they need for life.
3 Reasons to Homeschool During the High School Years
- Reap the Rewards of All You’ve Done So Far and Savor Your Last Years at Home Together: You’ve spent years reading and talking with your children, guiding them through their education. Now you get to reap the rewards of all that hard work! As your high schooler matures into an independent thinker, get a front-row seat to hear his or her thoughts and questions. Many parents who homeschool through high school are amazed at the quality of relationships they enjoy with their teens.
- Tailor Their Education and Extracurricular Activities To Their Needs and Desires: Now more than ever, you can tailor your children’s education to their own interests and needs. With the amazing resources available through co-ops, college classes, online resources, and teach-yourself programs (such as Teaching Textbooks for math and Apologia for science), you can help your child soar, even if you don’t understand Calculus yourself. You can focus on a STEM track (Science, Technology, Engineering, and Mathematics), let them dive deep into music theory, or track down electives that develop their talents. Homeschoolers often have significantly more academic freedom to pursue their interests than traditional students do.
- Give Them More Time to Experience the Real World: Many parents worry about their child missing the “real world” experiences of prom, football games, and pep rallies. But I think homeschooling high school can offer more time for them to engage in the actual real world (instead of the relatively artificial world of hundreds of teens confined in one building together day after day). Your child will have time to pursue enriching outside activities to discover what she likes, such as:
- volunteering at the local pet shelter
- serving as a mother’s helper to a young mom once a week
- getting an apprenticeship in the medical field
- shadowing professionals in various fields
As much as I love homeschooling, I realize it won’t be the best fit for every family at every stage. But if you’re on the fence, I pray this quick list will encourage you to consider the benefits of teaching your children at home.
I obviously just brushed the surface here. What would you add to the list?
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